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It is good to see someone writing about the women empowerment and feminism and its really makes me feel awesome when I see people practicing these things rather than writing. However I'm not here for defining my version of women empowerment and feminism as lot of good stuffs by great people are already available in the open market.

Recently my one of friend vomited (HIS/HER) version of feminism and women empowerment. I was happy to read it. but wait for a while! What women empowerment means! People from different sociology-economical background will flood your mind with different thoughts and views. So do my friends, as they are the part of the society. Let's talk about the venom of my close friend.

"If you are educating a girl in Hi-Fi institutions; does that mean you got power to impose your decision.  Did she ask you, ‘Dad, I want to study in this or that’? Freak, she was a kid. You decided it may be you wanted to show off the community that you provide the best to your daughter, having no differences."

http://www.post-gazette.com/image/2014/07/25/ca27,23,1369,918/dr3826a-jpg.jpgFine! She was a kid. She was not able to decide about good and bad regarding herself in those days; but blaming a father is not a good idea. He decided to provide best education to his girl child; It doesn't mean 'imposing decisions'. It was his love which made him to work hard and collect each and every single penny what he paid for your Hi-Fi institutions or for your so called show off! He could get a better car or a villa for himself. He could even leave you in an orphanage and celebrate his life with your mom by all those huge bags of money. He had many other good options rather than wasting a money on a child who would consider her parents devotion as the show off. Even I'm afraid after reading these lines. If now this child can question his/her dad's choice about the school (when she/he was not able to decide) then I'm sure one day this child could question her/hisdad and mom about his/her birth. For her/him her/his birth could be a joy, pleasure or fun which her/his parents were enjoying and a mistake resulted as this child!

Ahh! Painful! How his/her parents would feel when they will face such a stupid question!

"Why can a guy choose a girl to marry but a girl can’t? Why if your son doesn't like the attire, the relation is end before building. But when your daughter don’t like a guy’s attire and think he is not a guy she dreamt the whole life, doesn't affect you?"

Hello! where the hell are you living! Its 21st century. Its not the same society which was few decades back when both girl and boy used to get married even without having a look at each other. I can agree that still there are few places where such stupid things are carried out but on the same time I believe this child is not living in those old days or in that place.

Once i was watching a bollywood movie. It has a dialogue "Ladkiyon ko good boys pasand nahi, unhe bad boys pasnd hain..."

Haiinnnn?? What is this ? Doesn't it sound strange. It was a movie so I moved on. Later on I found these stuffs again in many magazines and blogs! It could be a childish point but let this child ask herself/himself about this! What she/her want? who she/he dated? I need not explain more about it!

Its good this child has dream of someone. But is it enough? Did she/he ever tried to make herself/himself to be like the person she/he dreamed of?

Let me ask this helpless child why she/he needs someone? Are you unable to crawl? or you need someone to feed you? or to change your diapers or for something else...

Alas! I have to leave right know! I'll catch up you soon with the venom of my friend. 

(Thanks for making me to use my keyboard again for this)

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